How love goes..

"Hi!"

"Hello! What's your name?"

"I am Janelle. You?" ..

"Oh, nice name. By the way, I am Lloyd."..

         This short conversation may lead to a predictable friendship, that will soon be a relationship  OR it will lead to nothing. It's just between the three. 

          Firstly, let us give meaning to love. So, we all know that LOVE captures everything. LOVE can be strong. It makes people go crazy. In worst case scenarios, it makes people think of taking suicide because they were depressed or in pain or they were left by the one they loved most. Unconsciously, it makes us weak. In love, we need both of our mind and heart to work. We need our minds to think wisely and to make better decisions. We need our hearts, to give love to others and to make them feel that they are worthy. 

          Second, let us know what moves people to get involved in the feeling of being in love. There are ways to make people get closer to you and to make them comfortable when they are with you. Commonly, we make them feel that they are worthy by giving them your time. Time is priceless, yet it is precious. In simpler words, it can't be bought. What else? Share them your thoughts. For sure, people wants to know what goes in your mind. They want to know how you feel for them, especially for the girls. Make them feel that they are deserving of your love. Make them feel special. Try to understand the people you love. I am sure that there are unexplainable reasons behind why they act that way or why they did such thing. 

         Third, what is the feeling of being in love? It feels, EXCITING. We always feel excited in seeing our boyfriend or girlfriend. We just can't stand a minute not to see them. Fresh romance, it is. Of course, it feels OVERWHELMING. Why? Simple. We know that someone is there loving us with all their heart. Being in love, it feels that we are RESPONSIBLE and OBLIGED of our actions, words we uttered and of our decisions. We should also want to know our limits when it comes to love. We are responsible of having a girlfriend or a boyfriend. We should treat them right and with respect, because we chose to be with them. So, they deserve something special.

           Lastly, how to handle love when it is complicated. We can't avoid problems when it comes to love. Simple or worse, we should know how to handle them to avoid break-ups and hard feelings. Know what the problem is. Listen to each side. Try your best to understand and do not be carried away by your anger. Be calm. Now, talk about how you can settle the conflict. Know what makes the both of you feel comfortable with. Reflect from your actions and fix yourself. Make yourself a better person who is easy to love and happy to be with. In these simple ways, it can sum up to a wonderful and long-lasting relationship. 

Remember, love is STRONG. It can CAPTURE everything in an unpredictable time, place or moment. You cannot easily escape once you are caught. ♥

By AJ.